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I almost fired them, but I remembered the Quran
Here's the story
As-Salamu Alaykum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh,
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Now back to the story.
I almost fired someone a couple weeks ago.
And I almost made a huge mistake.
One of our high-ticket clients called me.
He said one of my team members was conspiring with his team to steal money.
I won't share all the details due to various reasons.
But he gave me the evidence.
It was clear. It was real.
And I was genuinely disappointed.
Not just upset.
Disappointed.
Because you invest in people.
You trust them.
And they betray that trust.
I kept myself calm because I knew if I spoke in anger, I'd say things I'd regret.
But internally?
I was ready to let them go.
I went back to management.
We called a team meeting.
And I explained the situation to everyone.
My decision was made.
This person was being fired.
But I wanted the team to understand why.
Then something unexpected happened.
As we started discussing what happened, every single team member spoke up.
Not to defend the person.
But to ask for forgiveness.
And here's what struck me.
They didn't just say it casually.
They said it collectively.
They said: "We ask for your forgiveness. This is not something we will ever do again."
One person asking for mercy?
Easy to dismiss.
But an entire team, all speaking with sincerity, all asking collectively?
That's different.
That stopped me.
And in that moment, something hit me.
A thought. A reminder.
The Quran says it over and over:
"Allah is forgiving and merciful."
And I realized something about myself.
I have so many sins.
So many things I've done wrong.
And I need Allah’s forgiveness and mercy.
But here I was.
Refusing to extend the same mercy I'm constantly asking for.
That was the moment everything shifted.
Not because what this person did was okay.
It wasn't.
Theft is serious. Trust violations are serious.
I don't take that lightly.
But they asked for forgiveness.
And more than that, the entire team asked for forgiveness on their behalf.
And I realized that sometimes, as a leader, your job isn't just to punish.
It's to see if redemption is possible.
So I gave them a second chance.
And I want to be clear about this because it matters.
I didn't do it because I'm soft.
I did it because a collective, sincere request is harder to ignore than an individual one.
When one person messes up and asks for forgiveness, you can choose to dismiss it.
But when an entire team believes in that person enough to stand with them?
When they're willing to vouch for them?
That changes the math.
That's not just an apology.
That's accountability from the people closest to the situation.
Here's the framework I use now:
If someone messes up and genuinely asks for forgiveness, consult the people around them.
What do the people who work with them say?
Do they believe in redemption?
Are they willing to stand with this person?
If the answer is yes, give a second chance.
If they cross the line and don't ask for forgiveness, fire them immediately.
But if there's genuine remorse and genuine support from the team?
That's worth looking into.
Because here's the truth about leadership.
Building a team isn't just about hiring the right people.
It's about creating a culture where people believe in each other.
Where they're willing to ask for forgiveness on behalf of each other.
Where they hold each other accountable and give each other grace.
That's rare.
And when you find that, you protect it.
If you're building a team or leading people, this matters.
Your job isn't to be ruthless.
It's to be just.
And sometimes justice looks like mercy.
Please do let me know what you think.
Did I make the right call or do you think I should’ve fired them.
Email me your responses.
Until next time,
Ali